The Last Veil: Experiences of Bereaved "Adult Orphans"
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https://doi.org/10.55016/qn4t9d03Abstract
In this paper, we examine the experience of adults who lose both parents, a transition sometimes named "becoming an adult orphan." Drawing on the image of a veil that drops with the death of the second parent, we argue that this loss discloses mortality as newly proximal rather than merely known in the abstract. Situating bereavement literature alongside philosophical accounts of mourning in Derrida, Blanchot, Patočka, and Malpas, we develop a hermeneutic account of grief as enduring rather than resolved. Central to this is entwinement, whereby another person becomes a condition of one's world rather than merely a piece of it, and answerability, the claim the dead continue to make on us. We argue that mourning, so understood, is not a stage to pass through but a lasting way of remaining in relation to the dead.
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